![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() How you punish is as important as the act of punishing itself.”ĭavid and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants And if he says he really didn’t hit his sister, you have to give him a chance to explain himself. You can’t treat his sister differently when she hits him. If you want to stop little Johnnie from hitting his sister, you can’t look away one time and scream at him another. All good parents understand these three principles implicitly. It can’t treat one group differently from another. There has to be a reasonable expectation that the rules tomorrow are going to be roughly the same as the rules today. First of all, the people who are asked to obey authority have to feel like they have a voice-that if they speak up, they will be heard. This is called the “principle of legitimacy,” and legitimacy is based on three things. “When people in authority want the rest of us to behave, it matters-first and foremost-how they behave. ![]()
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